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 ?Poor play manners? Message #1882    Replies: 4
posted by Gma Bobbye (Bobbye Kuhlman) on 03/30 at 20:43
I am relatively new here, and I have a question. Forgive if I don't use the correct terms. I was 'blocked' in at the start and couldnot move. My opponent, it seems, intentionally moves all others, without alloving my first 5 to move out. Is this common practice?
I asked "are you going to let me out" but my opponent did not answer.
I felt that I was intentionally being blocked. Yes or no? I would like an answer, either way.
Thank you
 
 Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1884    Replies: 1
posted by newguy (New Guy) on 03/31 at 04:51
Isn't that just good strategy on your opponent's part? The whole point of the game is to get all your pieces borne off...before your opponent does, and if possible do it while keeping some of your opponent's pieces trapped in your home board, or getting all of your guys borne off before he does any of his.
   
 Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1890    Replies: 1
posted by Gma Bobbye (Bobbye Kuhlman) on 04/01 at 03:55
I guess, if you look at it that way, but it is frustrating when they are all lined up, and I can't get out even with double 6s.
     
 Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1891    Replies: 1
posted by Gma Bobbye (Bobbye Kuhlman) on 04/01 at 14:11
I guess that I wouldn't think that way, I would like to give my opponent an even chance, rather than intetnionally blocking them.
       
 Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1892    Replies: 1
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/02 at 00:15
thats part of the game.
its not poor play manners, its strategy
         
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1893    Replies: 2
posted by dalyark (dalya) on 04/02 at 00:24
and cathm should know cause she does that to me all the time LOL TJ can you fix the dice where I could win just one match against cathm??? Should would appreciate it
           
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1894    Replies: 0
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/02 at 00:27
Don't even think about it, TJ, lol
           
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1899    Replies: 1
posted by T.J. (T.J. Crowder) on 04/02 at 11:16
LOL
             
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1900    Replies: 1
posted by IMAlunatik (you want my FOOL name??????) on 04/02 at 19:06
TJ..just tell Cath the Padres have traded Hoffman to the Marlins....She won't care what happens then in game..Let you make any move ya want...LOL
               
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1901    Replies: 1
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/02 at 19:08
okay, NOW you're in deep doodoo
                 
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1902    Replies: 2
posted by IMAlunatik (you want my FOOL name??????) on 04/02 at 19:11
Hide me...Some one hide me......LOL
                   
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1903    Replies: 0
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/02 at 19:12
you can run, but you cant hide
                   
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1905    Replies: 1
posted by dalyark (dalya) on 04/02 at 22:18
I'll hide you from mean old cathm-
                     
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1906    Replies: 1
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/02 at 22:24
lmao!
this should be interesting, dalya hiding the lunatik
                       
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1907    Replies: 1
posted by dalyark (dalya) on 04/02 at 22:58
and Cathm what is that suppose to mean???????
                         
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1908    Replies: 2
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/02 at 23:06
if i told you, i'd have to beat you (again)
lolol
                           
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #2970    Replies: 0
posted by ILTG (Al) on 07/09 at 23:48
You can beat someone????
                           
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #3345    Replies: 0
posted by LadyStark (Melissa) on 08/14 at 04:31
Cath? they picking on u?? lol need back up?
 
 Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #1931    Replies: 0
posted by dalyark (dalya) on 04/05 at 05:58
GMA I will respond to your orginal post- sometimes that's the way bacgammon works- you are most likely upset that the other player didn't answer you- sometimes other players has so many games going on that they just can't respond to every person they play. I'm not sure your playing partner can block you on purpose it's the luck of the dice- isn't it??
anyhow I hope you enjoy this site and welcome to this site- keep playing and have fun
 
 Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #2861    Replies: 0
posted by blueben (*Ben*) on 06/30 at 08:21
Its not poor manners to block someone in.
This is a game and people play to win, and the best way to win is by keeping your opponent out of the game.

Poor manners is not saying good luck at the start of the game, or good game / well played at the end.

Blocking someone in is exactly why I set out to do in a game, I play to win and if my opponent wants to have a laugh in the chat box too then all the better.
 
 Re: ?Poor play manners? Message #3107    Replies: 0
posted by RedBaron (Will C. Crowder) on 07/21 at 18:58
Bobbye, I think your question has been answered, but there's just one thing I'd add: The game of backgammon is very boring when it turns into a simple race, where the person who rolls the best dice wins. At that point, it simply becomes a game of chance and one may as well just have a game where a certain roll total needs to be reached first and may the luckiest player win (in other words, why bother with the checkers at all?).

So I think your question stemmed from a basic misunderstanding of the game. Backgammon is a game of luck AND skill. Blocking an opponent (and avoiding being blocked by an opponent) is part of the skill. Sometimes, in fact quite often, the move which gets you closer to "home" for a given roll is not the best move, because it leaves you vulnerable to being hit or blocked.

Backgammon has been around for 5000 years, in one form or another...It's the oldest board game known to man, if I'm not mistaken. If it were PURELY a game of luck, it wouldn't have survived that long, nor would it be as popular as it is today.

Anyway, feel free to invite me to a game or match if you like...You can make it unrated so it won't count in the stats (mine or yours). I'm not an expert, either, but I know the basics and I'll be happy to help you learn them.

Will
 WOW! Message #1913    Replies: 0
posted by newguy (New Guy) on 04/04 at 00:50
I think someone needs to refresh this a little with a top-level message to this thread--stuff was getting pretty tiny being squished the way it was. Go ahead reply to this message now, it won't be squished (until you put 16 more posts on).
 poor manners?? Message #1922    Replies: 1
posted by Gma Bobbye (Bobbye Kuhlman) on 04/04 at 23:57
I posted a simple question, askignfor information. I must sy that I consider it VERY poor manners the way the responses turned into anything but related to my question.
 
 Re: poor manners?? Message #1925    Replies: 1
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/05 at 01:43
uhoh Dalya's in BIG trouble
bad girl!
   
 Re: Re: poor manners?? Message #1926    Replies: 1
posted by dalyark (dalya) on 04/05 at 01:47
uh oh-
     
 Re: Re: Re: poor manners?? Message #1928    Replies: 1
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/05 at 02:06
hehehe; got dalya blocked now. : )
       
 Re: Re: Re: Re: poor manners?? Message #1930    Replies: 1
posted by dalyark (dalya) on 04/05 at 05:44
hey cathm that's not polite at all. :))
         
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: poor manners?? Message #1934    Replies: 1
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/05 at 17:22
where does it say i gotta be polite to Dalya?
is this a new gammon rule?
(she's blocked again, hehehe)
: )
           
 Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #1940    Replies: 3
posted by newguy (New Guy) on 04/07 at 04:35
Gma Bobbye is right. This is completely off-topic. If you want to talk this silliness you should start your own thread--or hijack a really old thread (maybe in the News and Announcements forum) that nobody ever reads anymore since it's old news. That would be a great way to:

a. keep yourselves from all being trolls

b. keep this goofiness away from where people have to be bothered by it.
             
 Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #1941    Replies: 1
posted by newguy (New Guy) on 04/07 at 05:06
Here's a good thread to pick on (it's near the bottom of the News and Announcements board, or you can click on this link to take you there): <a href="http://www.pocket-monkey.com/forum/msg.jsp?msg=1230">Click here to go to the thread, entitled "Planned Downtime"</a>

Now you can get off poor Gma's thread!
               
 Re: Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #1942    Replies: 1
posted by newguy (New Guy) on 04/07 at 05:07
Hey! Why didn't my hyperlink come through okay? Here it is again:

<a href="http://www.pocket-monkey.com/forum/msg.jsp?msg=1230">Here is the thread</a>
                 
 Re: Re: Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #1943    Replies: 1
posted by newguy (New Guy) on 04/07 at 05:07
AAARRRRRGGGGHH! I guess you guys can find it yourselves. :-)
                   
 Re: Re: Re: Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #1954    Replies: 0
posted by T.J. (T.J. Crowder) on 04/09 at 09:11
Please don't hijack old threads!

BTW, to make a link to another message, you want the [msg] MonkeyTag described here.

-- T.J. ;-)
             
 Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #1944    Replies: 1
posted by Gma Bobbye (Bobbye Kuhlman) on 04/07 at 14:03
Didn't mean to stir up hornets nest, , seems like sometimes, I have bad case of foot in mouth conditions, or what is more commonly known as "oldtimers syndrome!"
               
 Re: Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #1946    Replies: 0
posted by cathm (Cath) on 04/07 at 23:29
someone lose their sense of humor?
             
 Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #1947    Replies: 1
posted by LadyRebel (Carol) on 04/08 at 02:26
The whole point of a game site is to have fun. We're not here to win fame and fortune. Just to play and relax. I see no harm in "silliness", in fact it can be a great stress reliever. I do find the "sniping" totally unnecessary and not what the majority of us are here for.

As to Bobbye's question - an opponent blocking you in is merely good strategy on their part. If they block you in and prevent you from removing any of your men from the board they have gained 2 points, instead of 1 (assuming no one has used the cube). You can do a google search for "backgammon basics" and get numerous good links for beginner play that describe the various terms and strategies.

Welcome to the site Bobbye. Please feel free to give me an invite, if you'd like. I'm willing to play any and all players and answer what questions I can. I'm not expert, just love the game.
               
 Re: Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #1964    Replies: 1
posted by Gma Bobbye (Bobbye Kuhlman) on 04/10 at 22:17
Thanks, lady, appreciate your comments, and look forwrd to play. As I said at the start, I am very new, and it does take a while to learn some of the strategy in playing the game. I can take a joke as well as the next person, but I did ask the question in all sincerity, siimply because I wanted to learn.
                 
 Re: Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #2165    Replies: 1
posted by frolind (Frode L) on 05/28 at 00:25
If an opponent asked "are you going to let me out", I would assume it was a joke. I might have joked back, or I might not.

I'm not saying this to ridicule your question, but to point out that your opponent maybe didn't take the question seriously.
                   
 Re: Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #2871    Replies: 1
posted by coldy (Jayden) on 07/01 at 10:53
I have had many people I know well say the same joke numerous times as a joke. I agree with frolind, I would have interpretted it as a joke
                     
 Re: Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #3003    Replies: 1
posted by Silverwalker (Silverwalker) on 07/12 at 21:55
You know guys, something similar happened to me. I was playing Radar War Salvo, and this one gal hit four of my ships in the first round. I was like, give me a break willya? But she wouldn't!

Another time a guy kept capturing my pieces in chess. I asked him to stop, but he just ignored it. Then he kept checking my king! Again and again, so I had to keep moving my king and couldn't move any other piece.

This other time, there was this girl who was better than me at four-in-a-row. She kept winning, so I stopped playing the game. And she was my girlfriend! Boy, you can bet I didn't put out that weekend, let me tell ya. If she keeps getting four in a row online, then she won't even get two in a row offline, know what I mean?

Right now I'm playing hypergammon, and my opponent keeps throwing my pieces back to the bar. I keep doing the same in retaliation, but some people just can't take a hint!


People are so insensitive sometimes!


=)
                       
 Re: Re: Off-topic talk is even worse poor manners! Message #3007    Replies: 0
posted by anna716 (Anna) on 07/12 at 22:52
I ask ALL the time! But I never catch a break! But, seriuosly, I ask "only" as a joke. I would not want to be "let out" because I would want to get out and win all by myself. It is called the stradegy of the game. One guy did let me out because I was begging so bad and then I pitched a B---- because he did! lol
Eventually you will get out, but loose the game. That's why it is a "game."
This is my honest answer to your question.

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